I'm creating this page of information because I have many new, potential clients contact me who don't know anything about how to go about making an appointment. I want to help you guys learn about this process so you can be safe, make good choices, and come see me when you are ready!
It's wonderful that we can all add an element of safety to encounters with strangers these days by simply knowing where to go online.
For the client, the best place for you to look is on www.theeroticreview.com , or TER for short. This is a site that has reviews
about the different providers. There is a TER link on my "about me" page that will take you directly to my pages of reviews.
It costs $30.00/month for a VIP membership. You do NOT need to be a VIP member to read a portion of the reviews provided there.
You will not be allowed to view most of the information as a non-member, but if you click on a review, it will open up and
non-members will be allowed to read the top paragraph where you should be given a good summary of what the client thought of the escort.
You can also get two weeks free VIP membership for every review that you write. I've heard that many first time reviews are rejected for
some reason, mostly because they do not have enough details in the "VIP member" portion of the review. If this happens to you, rewrite it,
resubmit it. Or, simply pay the fees and join. If you select a provider without seeing their reviews, you are taking a huge gamble.
I hear stories about upselling (you pay your 300 and then they want 200 more for some hidden cost), or the pictures you see on the
ad are NOT pictures of the lady you go to see, or worse. Considering how many people have had experiences like this, it might be worth
an extra $30.00 to have access to all of the information there before you spend a large amount of money for the company of a provider who
is not right for you.
You may already know that many popular providers are requiring referrals from new clients or some other type of verification. For us to know that you have had a session with another provider and everything went well is EXTREMELY important to us. I realize that you guys want to be discreet. So do we. But it takes a leap of faith on both our parts to be safe. Sometimes I speak with a potential client who doesn't have referrals and doesn't even want to give me his full name. So, how fair is that? My new clients can read reviews and know that, according to many happy clients, I'm perfectly safe. I'm not blackmailing, upselling, or ripping anybody off in anyway. I invite clients into my home. I want to know that my potential clients are going to be good clients, too.
When I am considering seeing a client for the first time there are several things I want to know. I want to make sure they have a normal, safe job. I want to make sure they will not hurt me in any way. Those are the most important two things. I also want to make sure they respect boundaries. I don't want to waste my time with anyone who doesn't want to pay what I'm asking in exchange for my time. If a potential client wants to spend less than what I'm asking then they need to find another lady to spend time with who accepts those lower rates, right? You don't go into Starbucks and complain about paying 5.00 for coffee...if you only have 2.00 go to 7-11 for coffee. If a client goes over on time, then they owe more money. If they don't pay that, then it's like stealing. If you read my reviews, you know I'm not a clock watcher. And I always mention to a client at a certain point that if he wants more time it will cost more money. But, I feel a client should take the initiative and at least give a generous tip if he goes over on time. A tip should be at least 50 for every 15 minutes of extra time. The client should be clean. Most guys know this and come over dressed and smelling like we are going out on a casual date. (Thanks guys!) But, if you come from work or it's really hot outside, feel free to ask if you can use the shower first. It's fine with me...encouraged actually! Another important characteristic of a good client is reliability. Canceling on short notice is a pain in the butt and costs us money. If a potential client doesn't call and doesn't show up...he's blacklisted. Please don't do that.
There are two sites that I know of who will verify you by checking your references and/or your job. This is done very discretely, of course. After you are verified your personal information is deleted. If you belong to one of these sites... you are in. When you call me to make an appointment, I will gladly see you. Very simple. Very safe. The sites are:
I also accept clients with military IDs (be sure to check my discount page as well) I will check your ID for sure. I will also check your ID if you look like you might be younger that 21.
You can also write a review on TER and ask that the provider or escort "refer" you. This is very easy to do, although before I was allowed to refer clients I had to contact TER and ask to be able to do it. I think there might be some criteria for the escort to be able to refer, like having a certain number of reviews. If you have escort referrals this might be an acceptable way to be verified, but it might take a little time to contact the escort who referred you to compare your phone number with the name and number in her personal records.
Which brings us to the final, and most common way of being verified... escort referrals. As I mentioned above, if you can provide the name and number of an escort who saw you who says everything went smoothly, that means so much! It's so extremely important. When you use an escort for a referral, please be prepared to provide the escorts name and number. It's not okay to say you saw somebody named Candy in New York a year or two ago. You need to be specific. Have the escorts name and phone number. Know approximately when you saw her. If there is something that will help her remember you, give that information as well. The guys who are really good at this always contact their referring escort and ask if it's okay if they use her as a referral and help her remember who they are before they ever get a call from the new escort they are trying to see. Then it's very simple. Problems arise when you try to get a referral from an escort who doesn't give referrals or keep track of who she sees. They may not remember you. They may not be working for a couple of days. You want to allow plenty of time for this process because some escorts are not quick to respond. Personally, I will want to see the escorts website, ads, or TER reviews to verify that she is a legitimate escort as well. It's not a perfect process and it can be very frustrating for everybody if you don't take the time to contact the referring escort first to tell her to expect a call.
If I have seen you recently and recorded it properly in my planner, I am happy to provide you with a referral. By recently, I can give you a referral for up to a year ago. Maybe 18 months.
Also, if would like to join preferred411 let me know and I will send you an invitation. Send me a request by email and I will send you an invitation. If I invite you and you accept and have two escort referrals, you will get six months free. If I have seen you, let me know. I can verify that and check a box on the invitation indicating that I refer you. Then you will need one other escort referral to qualify for six months free, or if you have two other escort referrals and you have not seen me, then you can get six months free by accepting my invitation. You can also be verified through employment. I'm not sure exactly how they do this.
It's my opinion that the BEST way to do this is be verified by P411 or RS2K (www.preferred411.com or www.roomservice2000.com). I've never heard of anyone having any problems with either one of these verifying sites. But, if you are very uncomfortable belonging to anything adult in nature and many clients are, then you will have to rely on the imperfect referral system.
For the clients who don't want to give any personal information because you are afraid of blackmail or whatever, go back to the TER reviews. See if anyone else has had any troubles. If you want to see someone who doesn't ask for referrals, there are plenty of escorts out there who don't. Protect yourself and make sure they have plenty of consistant decent reviews on TER.
I'm at a point in my career where I don't need any new clients and I can be as selective as I want to be. I want to be safe. I want to be respected. I don't want to haggle over my rates. No, I won't see anybody for less than my advertised rates. I don't care how cute you are or how fun you are to spend time with. I don't want to take any chances with my new clients.
If you are new to this and you have no references, you are not military, and you are not willing to be verified, then I'm not a good match for you at this time. I sincerely appreciate your interest in seeing me! And thanks for taking the time to understand where I'm coming from by asking for referrals. Now you know what it takes to see me and some of the more established ladies. And, hopefully you understand a little more about how all this works. It's nothing personal. It's just my choice!